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I'm 32, and I'm not going to say to myself "just so long as you meet someone before 40, that's fine." I've been putting this off too long as it is. In the meantime, I'm just getting older, and you have to face the facts of aging. But one should not forget that about 50% (or more depending on how provocative the profile pic) of those messages are from desperate spambots who initiate 'contact' with anything that looks remotely human and has two legs and a va-gi-na.What if I get sick, what if I get hit by a car tomorrow and can't walk. I'm 32, and I'm not going to say to myself "just so long as you meet someone before 40, that's fine." I've been putting this off too long as it is. If you want to increase your chances of getting a reply you should avoid sending messages containing less than two sentences.What if I get sick, what if I get hit by a car tomorrow and can't walk. 'Hi how are u'; 'nice pic, u look great'; 'So what you lookin for on here?' are typical lines used by the aforementioned spambots and therefore hard to take serious by the recipient.

Also today, I got an email saying someone "rated me highly." I don't know what I do with that--the woman did not send a message. About being angry anyway, I think it's because I just don't like myself, and don't believe I deserve anything.

In my opinion, the right reaction would have been "Oh, great. Six people within one week, and who I'd normally most likely never get to know. It's as if you are so full of anger all the time for no reason that you want things to fail just to be more angry. If I have no visitors or messages, I tend to get annoyed.

Now I feel a little better, today I actually got a couple replies.

I don't like the vile combination of vanity and egocentricity that dating services represent so well. I've done Google search on "why am I getting few/no replies on a dating site? From alleged women on other sites, a couple of them listed "extreme shyness, mental disorders, or some other handicap" was a deterrent.

This time, forget about the problem of looks, job, income, and the fact that I listed "rather not say" for the last two. But forget it this time, because I'm tired of the flame war it causes, and getting the thread deleted. Men talked about how 1-3% response rate for messages was common for the average or below average male.

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